Men, Phones, & A Purse

These days we all value things differently, especially when it comes to accessories and essentials.  Things that were once important have been replaced with newer things that carry more value.  Before your wallet, then your keys were the most important thing for you.  If you lost either one of those, things would be disarray.  However the cell phone today is now on top.  

You may wonder why?  Well it connects you to everything in your world.  Your friends, family, business and those you meet passing by.  You can keep current with your business via email, escape with games and have fun with snapchat or other apps that catch your attention.  Why is this important? Mainly because we dont part from our cell phones.  Most not for even a minute while working, working out, on a date or even with friends.  That phone is your sidekick to fighting and maneuvering the world and all its challenges.  

Recently I had a conversation with a friend and we talked about that, and the point was made that if you part with your cellphone, even for a little while, there is an element of trust there.  You might miss a text message, a facebook update, email or phone call.  So when a man asks a woman to hold his cell phone, most notably in her purse, there is a higher level of trust.  It is a step in building a relationship or friendship.  

Think back, when was the last time you asked a female friend, or a girlfriend to hold your cell phone?  If you haven’t, why not? Is your phone that important to be by your side all the time?  If you did, think why.  Was it because it didn’t fit somewhere and you were holding too much? Or was it more because you knew where you were needed to be and it didn’t matter who was calling because you wanted to hang with your friend.  Its almost like leaving your cellphone in the car or at home and not worrying about it because the time with that person, cool friend or otherwise, makes up for the time.  

Remember, you don’t have to like her romantically to do that, she can just be a good friend.  It doesn’t have to be every time, but next time or the first time, know what it means.  If she asks you now, you may think to yourself, is it a test or a trick?  Probably not, however. after she reads this article, it probably will be a test.