Memoire: Attraction, Is she into you or not
When out on the town, its always nice to meet someone. Yet knowing if a woman is attracted to you or not means the difference of a good night and possibly having company or not. The way to know if she is attracted to you is to pay attention to the signs she gives. Here are some subtle and not so subtle ways to tell that she is attracted to you when you first meet her.
Simple:
She looks down after you make eye contact
This is one that most people miss, or misunderstand. When a woman looks down right after you make eye contact, that tends to mean that she is shy and usually attracted to you instead of avoiding you. So the next time she looks down, remember that it most likely is a good thing.
Sophisticated:
She accepts your drink
When a woman accepts a drink from you these days, yes its understandable that she may be hustling you for some free alky, yet if she is into you, that is the last thing on her mind. There is an element of trust because guys are slipping things into drinks that puts them in a vulnerable position. So enjoy the conversation that comes along with for the time being. Remember just because you bought her a drink, doesn’t mean that you have dibs on her all night.
She plays with her hair.
This is one of the clearest signs she is into you, and also one of the most direct ways to flirt. Playing with or twirling their hair is something that women naturally do with their hair when they like someone. The interesting thing is that most women don’t really know that they are doing it.
She touches you.
Now before your mind goes south, let me explain what I mean. When a woman touches you, that means she likes you and most importantly is comfortable with you. This is a great sign. It normally is on the arm, or if your lucky on the leg. When this happens, smile and know you are doing the right things.
Classic:
You get a real hug, not “the pat” hug
Women are fairly good at letting you know if you are in the friend zone or not. One clear way is hug. If you get a robotic, somewhat forced hug, then you have a long way to go. But if its close, and she doesn’t pat your back, but rubs its a bit, then you are much closer to her than the average Joe on the street.
NOTE: One thing to pay attention to though is the wording she uses. For example, if she says “I had dinner with MY friend...”, then you have no worries. If she says “I had dinner with A friend...”, then most likely it is a man and there is some love interest between them. One simple word can tell you a lot.
Simple:
She looks down after you make eye contact
This is one that most people miss, or misunderstand. When a woman looks down right after you make eye contact, that tends to mean that she is shy and usually attracted to you instead of avoiding you. So the next time she looks down, remember that it most likely is a good thing.
Sophisticated:
She accepts your drink
When a woman accepts a drink from you these days, yes its understandable that she may be hustling you for some free alky, yet if she is into you, that is the last thing on her mind. There is an element of trust because guys are slipping things into drinks that puts them in a vulnerable position. So enjoy the conversation that comes along with for the time being. Remember just because you bought her a drink, doesn’t mean that you have dibs on her all night.
She plays with her hair.
This is one of the clearest signs she is into you, and also one of the most direct ways to flirt. Playing with or twirling their hair is something that women naturally do with their hair when they like someone. The interesting thing is that most women don’t really know that they are doing it.
She touches you.
Now before your mind goes south, let me explain what I mean. When a woman touches you, that means she likes you and most importantly is comfortable with you. This is a great sign. It normally is on the arm, or if your lucky on the leg. When this happens, smile and know you are doing the right things.
Classic:
You get a real hug, not “the pat” hug
Women are fairly good at letting you know if you are in the friend zone or not. One clear way is hug. If you get a robotic, somewhat forced hug, then you have a long way to go. But if its close, and she doesn’t pat your back, but rubs its a bit, then you are much closer to her than the average Joe on the street.
NOTE: One thing to pay attention to though is the wording she uses. For example, if she says “I had dinner with MY friend...”, then you have no worries. If she says “I had dinner with A friend...”, then most likely it is a man and there is some love interest between them. One simple word can tell you a lot.
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